Monday, 19 May 2014

Day 12: Pay compliments

Quote
I will be generous with my love today. I will sprinkle compliments and uplifting words everywhere I go. I will do this knowing that my words are like seeds and when they fall on fertile soil, a reflection of those seeds will grow into something greater. Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

Bible Verse
His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. 2 Peter 1:3

Inspiration
Thank You for Being a Friend Andrew Gold
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Gratitude Link
10 Practices

Journaling
How do you deal with people paying you compliments? Do you pay people compliments? To your friends? To total strangers?

Technique
Inktense Pencils and stencils
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Action
Make a positive comment on a website or a blog.

Have you added to your gratitude list that you started in Day 1?   Remember, each day this month add something to this list that you are thankful for.  You could take a photo each day.  Or tweet using #21daysinMay2014

And finally
Here is today's PDF.   Don't forget to share your work by adding a link to your page, flickr or blog using the linky.  Or tweet using #21daysinMay2014

Friday, 16 May 2014

Be a Blessing: Guest Post

Today I'm delighted to introduce you to Mary Brack.



In my faith community/church we have a saying that came out of an extensive study we made through the Bible exploring God’s call on His people:

“Blessed to Be a Blessing”


As we journeyed through Scripture over many months we saw from beginning to end that God has always had a plan for His people to be a blessing to others.


In Genesis 12:2-3 it starts with God’s words to Abram (Abraham):

“I will make you into a great nation,
    and I will bless you;
I will make your name great,
    and you will be a blessing.
I will bless those who bless you,
    and whoever curses you I will curse;
and all peoples on earth
 
  will be blessed through you.”


Throughout this journey this saying began to develop a theology in us.  A theology, put in simple terms, is the doctrine or belief that forms your faith about something.  So the theology that began to develop for us was that God has blessed us for a greater purpose than just making us happy.  He has blessed us so that we will in turn bless other people.  God’s heart is for people.  He loves us and He loves to bless His people.  Blessing is His nature, and we are called to imitate and take on His nature.





I appreciated the comments by Brene Brown that Bernice shared with us in her introductory post on April 24.  She spoke of how simply having an attitude about something (in this case gratitude) does not make it an active practice in our lives.  I agree that simply having an attitude will not make something an action, but attitude is a very important part.  

Our attitude is formed by our theology, our belief about what we believe to be true, and our practice or actions flow out of what we believe ~ they flow out of our attitude.  So understanding and believing that God has called me to use the blessings He has given me to bless others will guide how I approach how I live and minister.  So rather than praying “Lord, bless me”, my prayer becomes “Lord, make me a blessing today.  Bless someone through me today”   Over time, then, my attitude and my actions begin to change as I am open to and look for ways to be a blessing to others.   It also changes how we view our stuff, our money, our time, our lives – all blessings from God, but like tithing, we are simply managers or stewards of the blessing God has given us.   Our time, our money, our stuff, our very lives, all belong to God and He has called us to use them in the way that pleases Him – use them to bless others.


Let’s make this real practical. What are blessings in your life that you can bless others with? And who can you bless? Some ideas:

Bless others with your:

  • Money
  • Time
  • Gifts
  • Talents
  • Compassion
  •  Love
  • Stuff

Bless:

  • your family
  • your neighbors
  • people in your church
  • people in your school or job
  • people you know
  • people you don’t know
  • the poor
  • the needy
  • people in crisis

The really incredible thing is that when we start to live life looking for ways to bless others, we find that we experience God’s blessings in new ways as well.

 Thank you so much Mary.  I love your take on the prompts.

Day 11: Be a blessing

Quotes
There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.    Albert Einstein

I'm just thankful for everything, all the blessings in my life, trying to stay that way. I think that's the best way to start your day and finish your day. It keeps everything in perspective.    Tim Tebow

Bible Verse
In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’ Acts 20:35

Inspiration
Dying College Professor Gives Inspiring Speech )

Gratitude Link
How gratitude can change your life

Journaling
What things can you do to be a blessing to other people? How have other people blessed you?

Technique
Dry embossing without a machine
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Action
Ask someone “How are you really doing?” – and then really listen to the response.

And finally
Here is today's PDF.   Don't forget to share your work by adding a link to your page, flickr or blog using the linky.  Or tweet using #21daysinMay2014

Thursday, 15 May 2014

Day 10: Celebrate

Quote
The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate.   Oprah Winfrey

We all have life storms, and when we get the rough times and we recover from them, we should celebrate that we got through it. No matter how bad it may seem, there's always something beautiful that you can find.     Mattie Stepanek

Bible Verse
They tell of the power of your awesome works - and I will proclaim your great deeds.
They celebrate your abundant goodness and joyfully sing of your righteousness.
The LORD is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and rich in love.      Psalm 145:6-8

Inspiration
Celebrate Jesus
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Celebration
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Gratitude Link
What is gratitude?

Journaling
What occasions do you celebrate?
What else in your life do you or could you celebrate?
What do you celebrate in other people’s lives?

Technique
Spray Starch
If you decide not to buy some spray starch have another go at the watercolour and clingfilm technique but use a different waterbased medium.

Action
Make a list of all the things you can celebrate in 2014.
Which of them could you plan a celebration for?

And finally
Here is today's PDF.   Don't forget to share your work by adding a link to your page, flickr or blog using the linky.   Or tweet using #21daysinMay2014

Wednesday, 14 May 2014

Day 9: Smile

Quotes
Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
Leo Buscaglia

Smile, for everyone lacks self-confidence and more than any other one thing a smile reassures them. Andre Maurois

Bible Verse
Oh give thanks to the Lord, for he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever! Psalm 107:1

Inspiration
Lady waving

Dancing Stranger

Gratitude Link
How to practice gratitude

Journaling
What do you do when total strangers smile at you?
What small act of caring has been shown to you?

Technique
Glue Stick Resist
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Action
Smile at strangers as you pass them.   Don’t worry if they don’t smile back.

And finally
Here is today's PDF.   Don't forget to share your work by adding a link to your page, flickr or blog using the linky.  Or tweet using #21daysinMay2014

Tuesday, 13 May 2014

Day 8: Make mistakes

Quote
When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hold on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn. Harriet Beecher Stowe

I wouldn't change anything. I've made mistakes, but thanks to those mistakes, I've learned.
Enrique Iglesias

Bible Verse
May the favor of the Lord our God rest on us; establish the work of our hands for us - yes, establish the work of our hands. Psalm 90:17

Inspiration
How to learn from mistakes
)

Gratitude Link
Transformative power

Journaling
What lessons have you learned from mistakes in the past?
How do you deal with your own mistakes?
Do you show more compassion to others that make mistakes than you do to yourself?

Technique
Acrylic block stamping
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Action
Next time you make a mistake, instead of being hard on yourself, ask yourself what you can learn from it. Be thankful for the lessons learned.

And finally
Here is today's PDF.   Don't forget to share your work by adding a link to your page, flickr or blog using the linky.   Or tweet using #21daysinMay2014

Monday, 12 May 2014

Day 7: Encourage

Quote
When we become more fully aware that our success is due in large measure to the loyalty, helpfulness, and encouragement we have received from others, our desire grows to pass on similar gifts.  Gratitude spurs us on to prove ourselves worthy of what others have done for us.  The spirit of gratitude is a powerful energizer.    Wilferd A. Peterson

Bible Verse
May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Romans 15:5-6

Inspiration
Black Beauty
)

Gratitude Link
20 ways

Journaling
Do you think of yourself as an encourager? Quite often those who have a gift of encouragement don’t recognise it in themselves.
Who encourages you?
If you feel discouraged, what actions do you take to lift yourself up?

Technique
Colour Blocking Technique
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Action
Write a letter to a child who could use some encouragement or attention. Kid’s love getting mail.

Have you added to your gratitude list that you started in Day 1?   Remember, each day this month add something to this list that you are thankful for.  You could take a photo each day.  Or tweet using #21daysinMay2014

And finally
Here is today's PDF.   Don't forget to share your work by adding a link to your page, flickr or blog using the linky.  Or tweet using #21daysinMay2014